Posts Tagged ‘women rights’


Every day, misogyny kills women around the globe in two ways: directly through violence and indirectly through apathy, said David A. Grimes, MD, clinical professor of ob-gyn at University School of Medicine in Chapel Hill, who delivered his lecture “Misogyny and Women’s Health” today at The American College of Obstetricians and Gynecologists’ 59th Annual Clinical Meeting.

According to Dr. Grimes, women are dying needlessly because societies just don’t value them. Examples of misogyny—literally “hatred of women”—range from lack of equal treatment to emotional and physical abuse to murder. “Maltreatment of women has been institutionalized by governments and religions for millennia,” said Dr. Grimes. “This maltreatment often manifests itself as domestic violence, rape, rape as an instrument of warfare, sexual harassment, child marriage, and ‘honor killings’,” he said.

It’s not just third world countries where women continue to suffer, according to Dr. Grimes. “You don’t have to look outside the boundaries of this country—women in the US also suffer from the effects of misogyny.”

Dr. Grimes pointed out some sobering statistics from the World Health Organization. The prevalence of domestic violence worldwide is between 15-71% and abuse during pregnancy occurs among 4-12% of women. Up to one in every five women is sexually abused as a child. Nearly a quarter of Peruvian women and 40% of South African women experience a forced first intercourse. Honor killings take the lives of 5,000 women each year.

Approximately 343,000 women worldwide die each year from complications of pregnancy and childbirth, an average of one death every other minute, said Dr. Grimes. Nearly all of these deaths are preventable. Notably, half of these maternal deaths occur in just six countries (Afghanistan, Democratic Republic of the Congo, Ethiopia, India, Nigeria, and Pakistan). These societies have yet to make the decision that these women’s lives are worth saving, he said.

By ACOG – May 2nd, 2011


“Imagine just one woman, that she is first raped in public and then forced to sit on burning coal until her entire genitalia are destroyed. Her husband, children and family are forced to witness the torture. Her father is forced to participate in the rape. The family´s fields are then torched. Let us then imagine that during the following days 242 other women are raped, something that occurred as recently as August this year, and then consider that this aggression has been on-going for more than a decade.”

Democratic Republic of Congo - DRC

The international medical community has recently been mobilized to stand up for the rights of womyn in Democratic Republic of the Congo (DRC). Health care providers are appealling for peace and an end to sexual aggression there.

Rape is being used as a more powerful weapon than guns. In that region, rape can causes disolution of families and communities, immigration, life long illnesses, lower health status and increase in rate of suicide and furthur alienation of victims, trauma that can be as gravid and destructive as that caused by war.

I just signed the following Call for Action and I invite you to do the same. We must put an end to sexual aggression against womyn and girls in the Congo.

“We, as part of the global medical community, endorse Dr Mukwege and his colleagues´ following demands to the international community:

  1. Demand of the DRC, Rwanda and Uganda that they take control over their regular and irregular militias that wreak destruction in the area. The economic interests that entertain the chaos of the region to a great extent explain these states seeming indifference faced with the indescribable suffering taking place.
  2. Extend and strengthen the mandate for the peace-keeping troops in the region to protect civil society.
  3. Encourage the creation and training of a Congolese policing unit to large part consisting of women with the purpose to protect civilian society.”

  

The following medical organizations also endorse this call for action:

  1. The Swedish Society of Obstetrics and Gynecology (SFOG)
  2. The Swedish Society of Medicine
  3. The Swedish Medical Association
  4. Nordic Federation of Obstetrics and Gynecology (NFOG)
  5. Danish Society of Obstetrics and Gynaecology (DSOG)
  6. Finnish Gynaecologic Association (FIK)
  7. Norwegian Gynecological Association (NGF)
  8. Icelandic Society of Obstetrics and Gynecology (FÍK)
  9. The Society of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Canada (SOGC)
  10. The Swedish Association of Midwives
  11. AMOG- Associação Moçambicana de Obstetras e Ginecologistas
  12. Canadian Association of Midwives
  13. FIGO – the International Federation of Gynecology and Obstetrics
  14. Association of Obstetricians and Gynaecologists of Ukraine (AOGU)
  15. Scandinavian Doctors Sweden
  16. Rotary Doctors Sweden

 

If you are the health care provider, click here to endorse this appeal for peace and an end to the sexual aggression in the Congo.


“A dad and his son had a car accident, the father died and the son was rushed to the hospital… The Doctor said: “I can NOT do the surgery, he is my son” Explain

This was a riddle I received by a broadcast BBM (BlackBerry Messenger) from my sister today.

Before you scroll down, take a minute to think about the right answer. Please consider leaving your first answer as a comment on this post.

With my sister in Lebanon end of 2009 (Blog post and photo are published with her permission)

“The Doctor is his Mother” I replied.

“You truly are a feminist” my sister wrote back.

I read her line as I was recovering from a reality shock. I actually fell in the trap. I have to confess that it took me more than a minute to figure it out which, in my opinion, is appalling.

“I did not know the answer” she continued.

“Who else on your list knew it?” I asked

“No one”

“I loved this riddle. It is such a feminist riddle. I did not guess it automatically, it took me some time, which is a shame. It reflects traces of brainwashing by an eastern Chauvinistic society in which we were raised.”

I am still not over the fact that I did not know the answer immediately. I realized how much work I still need to rid myself of prejudice I absorbed from a patriarchal society.

My sister felt even worst: “I hated myself when I knew the answer. كرهت حالي بس عرفت الجواب We all did, especially the girls. That is sad”

Yes, it is sad. It should be a wake up call for all of us. Lebanon is only “free”, “democratic” and “open-minded” when you compare it to neighboring countries, or other Arab-speaking countries. We should aspire to better quality freedom and social liberties than that of our neighbors.

No Lebanese man, woman or other should rest their case before womyn and those who identify as such have the full rights that men have. Womyn can not offer citizenship to their non-Lebanese husband or even to their kids from a non-Lebanese partner. Womyn can not report domestic violence to authorities as no protection is provided, on the contrary, they frequently end up back in the hands of their abuser same night. Womyn feel they need to hide their sexuality while men proudly flaunt it. Charges against a rapist will be dropped if he offers to marry his victim. Police get away with verbal sexual harassment of womyn on the street. I have witnessed few incidents in Beirut (#VisceralReaction). Many womyn are discouraged from pursuing further education because they are “ripe” for marriage. Those who do, will have strong competition from men, this is reflected in fewer womyn than men holding CEO or leader-position jobs. Womyn can be ostracized for delayed or no marriage. A unique term was even coined to further alienate these womyn: “عانس Aaniss”. It is amuzing that the term is rarely, if ever, used for unmarried men.

I have to say I have doubts people raised in a Western societies will get the answer more righteously! I witnessed patriarchy in USA and Canada in my past 5 years here, but on a different level. This will be left for a different post.

Back to our riddle, if you felt bad for missing the answer, I tell you what I told my sister: “Do not feel bad, you are so righteous in saying ‘I hated myself  when I knew the answer’, that by itself is strongly feminist.”

I posted this riddle as my status on Facebook. Here are few answers I received.