Posts Tagged ‘Bekhsoos’


I am dedicating this post to LGBT rights in Lebanon. It might resonate with human rights activism else where.

LGBT Protest in Sodeco square, Beirut - June 2009 against brutal use of violence by police

In the past decade, Beirut has got more international attention as the “Sin city“ and “Provincetown“ of the Middle East. More recently, Beirut appears to be gaining a world-wide reputation as a gay destination. This culminated with the announcement by IGLTA (International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association) of its 2010 Symposium being held in Beirut in Oct. 2010.

This drew a mixed reaction from the Lebanese LGBT community. Bekhsoos dedicated a whole issue criticizing and even mocking gay tourism in Beirut. Helem supported the event but the speech delivered did not shy from bluntly stating Helem’s skepticism about any benefit to the LGBT community from gay tourism. Raynbow Media Monitor’s report drew a variety of opposing reactions on the blog and on theLebanese LGBT Media Monitor.

IGLTA 2010 symposium in Beirut

An Ad by Aishti, Beirut in 2004 targeting LGBT consumers.

Reading through all different arguments, here is my impression on the conflict: A majority is probably not even aware of the controversy surrounding gay tourism and gay-friendly businesses. The few LGBT activists were divided. Sophisticated intellectuals call it neoliberalism and Western imperialism, the meaning of which I had to look up in a dictionary. Your everyday leftist will argue: “Do not use my pocket to enrich yours”. Others believe that LGBT-friendly business and gay tourism promote the LGBT cause. I believe the issue is too complex to be summed up in a rigid black or white opinion.

This issue resurfaced few days ago when Helem’s administrator, Hiba Abbani, wrote an article for Al-Akbar titled “LGBT rights: Down with Sectarianism“. The article opens with comments about IGLTA’s 2010 symposium and continues to talk about pink dollars, consumerism and ends with calling on LGBT people “to fight the market and not surrender to it.” Abbani’s article intimidated few activists especially that it can be easily misinterpreted as the official position of Helem. (Read Did Helem miss!? “ما موقف جمعية حلم من موقف “جمعية حلم by Raynbow Media Monitor)

The LGBT community in Lebanon is very diverse. It has the poor and rich, the leftist and right winged, professionals and artists, activists, slacktivists and pacifists, the LGBT rights fanatics and the all-inclusive human rights advocates, etc…

  1. Do we advocate for the rights of one LGBT group and not the other?
  2. In our fight to end discrimination, are we allowed to discriminate?
  3. Are we assuming that LGBT who are more financially grounded face less discrimination, coming out struggles, social marginalization and stigma as compared to less financially founded LGBT?
  4. Are less financially blessed LGBT more worth of our activism than more financially achieved?

As for LGBT-friendly venues, those have their list of prices available. By visiting, you are accepting their terms and the profit margin they chose. It is great If they donate, it is fine if they don’t. Helping the community should be applauded but not expected. Those venues are not more expensive than your mainstream homophobic business in Beirut. So which is more efficient, investing our time and effort in fighting LGBT-welcoming businesses or the plethora of homophobic places that have similar profit-driven tactics!?

I am all for social justice and for fighting classism, but let us not be hypocritical, if we are to start a campaign against inhumane practices by businesses let us not launch it only against LGBT-friendly ones.

LGBT supporters march within the Laique Pride. Beirut, 2010


Facebook can be the birthplace for revolutions.

We are all Khaled Said (كلنا خالد سعيد) had a pivotal role in triggering the protests in Egypt demanding president Mubarak to step down.

YouTube shows it all.

Meet Wael Ghonim, Google’s MENA executive and the mastermind behind the above mentioned Facebook page. He was “kidnapped” by Egyptian authorities and recently released.

Twitter spreads the word to the world.

Gone are the days where only power and money controlled the media. Nowadays, people like you and I have our share. Read how few talented and devoted activists made #Gaza trend worldwide on Twitter to raise awareness about essential human rights violations by Israel.

Blogs speak loud.

The internet became the most efficient medium used by minority and oppressed groups. Take the lesbian and gay community in Lebanon as an example. Bekhsoos, a queer Arab magazine published weekly by Meem, gives a strong voice to Lebanese and Arab lesbian, bisexual and transgender individuals. The Lebanese LGBT Media Monitor provides daily news feed read by more than 3000 fans on Facebook.

Then comes censorship.

No wonder the internet is the first to go down during uprisings (example Egypt, Iran and Tunisia) and social media is censored by many ruling regimes. The “Enemies of the Internet” list drawn up in 2010 by Reporters Without Borders presents the worst violators of freedom of expression on the Net: Saudi Arabia, Burma, China, North Korea, Cuba, Egypt, Iran, Uzbekistan, Syria, Tunisia, Turkmenistan, and Vietnam.

However, censorship is often futile. Look at how censorship helped a site like WikiLeaks become a global movement changing politics the way we know it, to say the least. Listen to why the world needs Wikileaks, by Julian Assange on Ted.

My Point!

The point I am trying to make is that social media is becoming a necessity. You need to hop on if you have not yet. It is an essential tool for free speech, spreading awareness, connecting people and gathering support for causes that you might otherwise feel detached from, like sexual aggression against womyn in The Congo or gay and lesbian rights in the Arab world.

I joined Twitter motivated by fear of lagging behind. I thought if 175,000,000 are on it then I should too. Initially, I could not understand the point behind twittering, but I still tweeted. This has changed significantly. THere is much more to Twitter than I ever conceptualized. Few weeks ago I attended a medical “symposium” or “chat” about Early-Onset Alzheimer’s disease on Twitter, hosted by #MDchat in conjunction with Albert Einstein College of Medicine and Alzheimer’s Association. I even used Twitter to chat with tech support of GoToMeeting to troubleshoot a problem. A great part of my human rights activism is done on Facebook, Twitter and WordPress. This brings me back to my point:

A flutter of a butterfly’s wings in Beirut can cause a typhoon in Tokyo.

Typing a word can be the flutter.

All you need for change is a keyboard. What are you waiting for?


Here is a sexual health brochure that I supervised and edited during my last trip to Lebanon.

It is produced by Meem, “a community of lesbian, bisexual, queer & questioning women and transgender persons in Lebanon”.

The brochure was recently announced in Bekhsoos, “queer Arab magazine published weekly by queer and trans folks”.

I enjoyed working with Meem’s very dynamic and motivated health coordinator. Kudos to Meem for the great services they are providing their community. The brochure will be published and distributed in Lebanon soon.

To my knowledge, there are no health brochures targeting womyn who have sex with womyn in Lebanon. The only other publication I am aware of is an Arabic sexual health booklet by Helem called “Mish 3an el Nabat” (مش عن النبات). The booklet is for both men and womyn. Below is a slideshow of the brochure.